What do you consider a Lie?? .Deceiving others...Omitting the full Truth...Silence..Body Language or facial expressions create Lies also.... the Question I ask myself is.....Did I lie to them, convincing them into becoming a Friendly Person,,, or did I state a truth about them, that I myself simply did not Believe they were capable of at that time. If you tell a Lie over and over again,, It starts to feel true to yourself because you start to believe it as true....
Did I Lie to those people, and tell them only the good things about themselves.....( You are so great to be around, you make me smile, I feel like we have been best friends all my life, Everyone is just so Nice, and I cant imagine not getting to know them more.) Did I Believe what I was saying at the time?....NO,, to me it was all 100% Lies.. Did they realize I was lying to them,?, No..... But my Lies seemed to change them.. (or at least that is what I thought) Maybe My lies Changed Me in the way I saw them...Did I tell them they were Fun and Nice so many times that they began to become that Positive Friendly Person I wanted them to be,,, (Or was it Lies at all.? ) I mean Maybe, just maybe I simply stated a true fact about them,, that I myself had not realized was true yet. ... Is it A Lie??? If I had never said those things to them, I would not have gotten the same response out of them as I did... After I flattered them with those lies, they started opening up, and talking to me, they became friendly and caring.. They wanted to get to know me, and talk to me, and as a result, we are becoming real friends...So did I just built My friendship on a Lie!!....Is that so Bad?? lol I know people respond well to Positive things... so is it still wrong to have Lied in order to change the atmosphere in a room?. Some say a LIE is a LIE,, No matter how you look at it, it is always wrong to Lie. ..Was what I said a Lie? or was I just telling a few things that I thought "could be possible", in the future, I just didn't believe it myself at that present time..
If you're in an angry mood and you force yourself to smile, you are Lying to yourself about being happy for a minute, until you start to believe it, and than that forced smile becomes effortless..and you realize you are Happy Again... Do you Lie to yourself like that? or would you rather say you Never Lie? Some tell me, Its wrong to Justify any Lie.Lies are always Destructive to the ones telling them and the ones hearing them...... Maybe they are... By definition,what is a lie?.. At that time it may have seemed to be a lie that I told them, but maybe the Lie itself is thinking the "Lie" I was telling them was truly a "Lie"....I see now,,,They are my friends..I do feel like we have been friends forever...
